Saturday, not that it makes much differrence...
Today in San Miguel, it is, as always, sunny and warm.
I had a few days of feeling really lost and lonely here, but have started to get to know a few new friends. It takes time. I'm still tired a lot; the competely new culture, a new city, the altitude, and isolation of not knowing anyone, all taking a toll. I have to rest often. That whole siesta thing makes a lot of sense here, too, as it is very warm in the mid-day.
I'm still not used to having a maid and groundkeper here every day, and we can't communicate at all. I'm picking up a little Spanish, but not much, and feel very self conscious, because courtesy is a big part of the culture here, and there are lots of things I don't know. For example, in a restaurant, the waiter will not bring you the bill until you ask for it, as that would be considered rushing you off rudely. And then, you must give the money to him directly, not just leave it on the table. That would be like saying the server is not worth your personal attention.
Tonight I have been invited to a party to celebrate a new friend's graduation from university. There will be lots of people there, mostly American. I am looking forward to my first Mexican Fiesta!
Thanks to everyone who has left me a comment either on the blog or by e-mail. Good to know you're all still out there.
I had a few days of feeling really lost and lonely here, but have started to get to know a few new friends. It takes time. I'm still tired a lot; the competely new culture, a new city, the altitude, and isolation of not knowing anyone, all taking a toll. I have to rest often. That whole siesta thing makes a lot of sense here, too, as it is very warm in the mid-day.
I'm still not used to having a maid and groundkeper here every day, and we can't communicate at all. I'm picking up a little Spanish, but not much, and feel very self conscious, because courtesy is a big part of the culture here, and there are lots of things I don't know. For example, in a restaurant, the waiter will not bring you the bill until you ask for it, as that would be considered rushing you off rudely. And then, you must give the money to him directly, not just leave it on the table. That would be like saying the server is not worth your personal attention.
Tonight I have been invited to a party to celebrate a new friend's graduation from university. There will be lots of people there, mostly American. I am looking forward to my first Mexican Fiesta!
Thanks to everyone who has left me a comment either on the blog or by e-mail. Good to know you're all still out there.
posted by Jacquie Wareham Life Coach at 3:05 p.m.
2 Comments:
I like your blog. I haven't got a chance to read the archives or anything, though. Hope your fiesta goes well, and that your settling in continues. I LOVE the siesta thing too. I was submersed in the Italian culture for several months. The larger meal is around noon, and then everyone takes an hour's nap. Does good things for my spirits. God bless you!
Jacquie,
No wonder you said this "just feels right". What a beautiful place. It was a pleasure meeting you in San Miguel!
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